Consider the following resources on Adoption:

The Connected Child By Karyn Purvis
Thriving as an Adoptive Family By David & Renee Sanford
Adopted for Life By Russell Moore
Parenting you International Adopted Child By Patty Cogen
Orphanology By Tony Merida & Rick Morton

Books on how to deal with Miscarriage:

Safe in the Arms of God: Truth from Heaven about the Death of a Child By John MacArthur

I’ll Hold You In Heaven: Healing and Hope for the Parent Who has Lost a Child through Miscarriage, Stillbirth, Abortion or Early Infant Death  By Jack W Hayford

Grieving the Child I Never Knew By Kathe Wunnenberg

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